A veces hay que quitarse la venda de los ojos a tiempo si es que no hay que hacerlo de una. Màs de una vez nos dimos la cabeza contra la pared y no nos quedò otra que ver la triste realidad: ver que todo lo que vivimos fue pura fantasìa, que esa persona que admirabamos nos desfraudò. Creo que es tan desilusionante ver que todo lo que creiamos era tan falso.... Inclusive hay personas que prefieren seguir con la venda puesta porque no quieren padecer ese sentimiento de amargura, de tristeza, de "porque fui tan estupida/o", o porque odian el cambio y prefieren seguir como si nada hubiera pasado.
Para mì, toda situaciòn que implique desengaño es difìcil de superar pero es màs dificil cuando queremos a alguien, a quien nos brindamos, le demostramos cariño y esa persona se comporta de lo peor: engaña, desprecia... y uno se queda hay paradito entre asombrado y desilusionado. Obviamente la manera de enfrentar la situaciòn depende de la forma de ser de cada persona: existen aquellos que permanecen parados en ese lugar hasta quièn sabe cuando y otros directamente siguen para adelante, aunque creo que este ùtimo caso son los menos.
Una vez pasado el momento "climax" del desengaño, a la mayorìa de la gente le produce un resentimiento y un odio que en algunos casos termina en venganza. En otros, solo se reprime el sentimiento y se trata de seguir adelante y aunque parezca que todo se olvidò, igualmente el dolor y la tristeza queda en uno y solo con el paso del tiempo apenas se siente.
En fin, sea cual sea la desiluciòn y la manera en que la enfrentemos, nunca vamos a estar exentos de ella. Sòlo nos queda saber còmo enfrentarla lo mejor posible para que no nos destruya.
ENGLISH VERSION:
Sometimes we have to remove the bandage from our eyes. More than once, we banged our head against a brick wall, and saw the sad truth: we can discover that our past is a lie, or realize that the person we adored disappointed us. I think that it's too disappointing to see that everything we used to believe in was a lie... What's more there are people who prefer keeping the bandage on because they don't want to go on feeling bitter, sad and stupid, o because they hate the change in lifestyle and choose to keep going as if nothing has happened.
From my point of view, every situation that involves disappointment is hard to overcome. Nevertheless, it is more dismayed to find out that the person we love, whom we support and express our feelings, misbehaves: he/she cheats on us, he depises us,... and one gets stuck being flabbergasted and disillusioned with the whole event.
Obviously, the way to face the situation depends on each person: there are those who are stuck until who knows when, and others who go on with their lives though I think these people are difficult to meet.
Once people go through frustration, most of them get resentful and, to make matters worse, a feeling of hatred easily raises, which in some cases it ends up as revenge. However, others repress such feeling and try to go on with their lives and even though people seems to forget the nasty situation, the suffering and sadness remain in our hearts and are hardly experienced only with the passage of time.
Anyway, whatever the disappointing situation is and the way it is faced, we are never free of it at all. All we should know is how to confront it so that it doesn't destroy us.
Para mì, toda situaciòn que implique desengaño es difìcil de superar pero es màs dificil cuando queremos a alguien, a quien nos brindamos, le demostramos cariño y esa persona se comporta de lo peor: engaña, desprecia... y uno se queda hay paradito entre asombrado y desilusionado. Obviamente la manera de enfrentar la situaciòn depende de la forma de ser de cada persona: existen aquellos que permanecen parados en ese lugar hasta quièn sabe cuando y otros directamente siguen para adelante, aunque creo que este ùtimo caso son los menos.
Una vez pasado el momento "climax" del desengaño, a la mayorìa de la gente le produce un resentimiento y un odio que en algunos casos termina en venganza. En otros, solo se reprime el sentimiento y se trata de seguir adelante y aunque parezca que todo se olvidò, igualmente el dolor y la tristeza queda en uno y solo con el paso del tiempo apenas se siente.
En fin, sea cual sea la desiluciòn y la manera en que la enfrentemos, nunca vamos a estar exentos de ella. Sòlo nos queda saber còmo enfrentarla lo mejor posible para que no nos destruya.
ENGLISH VERSION:
Sometimes we have to remove the bandage from our eyes. More than once, we banged our head against a brick wall, and saw the sad truth: we can discover that our past is a lie, or realize that the person we adored disappointed us. I think that it's too disappointing to see that everything we used to believe in was a lie... What's more there are people who prefer keeping the bandage on because they don't want to go on feeling bitter, sad and stupid, o because they hate the change in lifestyle and choose to keep going as if nothing has happened.
From my point of view, every situation that involves disappointment is hard to overcome. Nevertheless, it is more dismayed to find out that the person we love, whom we support and express our feelings, misbehaves: he/she cheats on us, he depises us,... and one gets stuck being flabbergasted and disillusioned with the whole event.
Obviously, the way to face the situation depends on each person: there are those who are stuck until who knows when, and others who go on with their lives though I think these people are difficult to meet.
Once people go through frustration, most of them get resentful and, to make matters worse, a feeling of hatred easily raises, which in some cases it ends up as revenge. However, others repress such feeling and try to go on with their lives and even though people seems to forget the nasty situation, the suffering and sadness remain in our hearts and are hardly experienced only with the passage of time.
Anyway, whatever the disappointing situation is and the way it is faced, we are never free of it at all. All we should know is how to confront it so that it doesn't destroy us.
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